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The Success Paradox

What if someone told you that your success is an outcome of your luck? Is that enough for you to lash out and explain how your hard work and dedication have gotten you to the position where you are right now? What if I told you that your success is indeed a product of two contradictions? So why is the nature of your success contradictory? Before you could understand that, let's take a couple of minutes to get to know these contradictions. Contradiction 1: Your belief that it's your hard work and countless sleepless nights that have abled you to climb that success ladder and stand at the top. But, on the other hand, Contradiction 2: Your awareness that Contradiction 1 is a lie and your luck has played an important role in getting you where you are. This antithetical concept is the Success Paradox. But why does your success require to be paradoxical? The truth is, it doesn't. But it's the best approach that one should take to remain in touch with reality. It is human natu...

THE ART OF REPETITION


How does one become an expert at anything? By carefully observing the act? Or, through studying it in books. Some might argue that people are born with some capabilities which make them good with certain things. This conjecture will make Charles Darwin quite angry. After all, it was him who proved Lamarck wrong and told the world that acquired traits cannot be inherited. So, we are back at our question, how does one become an expert at something? 

The simple answer is, through repetition. We, humans, are natural-born mimics. This statement will also make Darwin very angry. The thing is, nobody is born with a set of traits that make them an expert at certain things. Granted, genetics might favour some individuals more than others. Like, a heavyweight person whose genetics allow him to put on more muscle mass will surely be better suited for certain contact sports like wrestling, as compared to someone whose genetics prevent him from putting on a substantial muscle mass. But, it is not genetics that tip off the balance in favour of somebody so that they can come out on top as the winner. It’s their knowledge, that they have gathered over the years and their technique, which they have mastered by practicing it every day. This is exactly why wrestling contenders are always matched with their respective weight categories so as to get rid of the genetic unfairness that might come into play when a heavy fighter fights with a lighter one.

So, the answer boils down to practice. The more someone practices something, the more they get the hang of it, and if we dig deeper into this phenomenon, we shall find that practice is nothing more than repetition. A set of coordinated activities that a person does over and over again in order to become better at a certain thing over time. Practice makes a man perfect. Perfection is the outcome of expertise, and expertise comes out from repetition. So, in turn, repetition induces perfection in a person.

So, if repetition is what makes a person expert at something then, why does it get a bad rep from people around the world? Did not catch my drift? Consider an example, you failed in a class, and now you have to repeat it for another year. Are you not worried about your friends’ or classmates’ perception of you? Well, we might come around the solution for this problem by the phenomenon that goes something like this;

“Some infinities are smaller than the others.”

So, some repetitions are better than the others. But, what separates the good ones from the others? Can someone really define what is good or what is bad? It’s society’s perception that provides the definition for it. And the heart of the matter is that society’s perception changes over time. Something which was thought to be bad can be regarded as normal, if not good, at some other time, and vice-versa. So, is it the time that one lives in which draws the line between good and bad? Taking a microscopic and individualistic view of the time, one can see how perception changes relative to it. Repeating a class because you failed seemed to be a shame when you were in school but it becomes a common practice when you reach college. Granted, it’s not the one to boast about, nonetheless, it becomes something for which you no longer feel ashamed. I could also argue that it is not the society’s perception that changes but the person actually adapts to the situation to the point that they no longer feel ashamed of failing the class, just because it has been done many times in their lifetime. Another example of repetition that causes you to be an expert at something and in this case, failure. But let's be honest, this is not realistic at all. But, at the same time, I think we can all agree that repetition actually induces perfection inside of a person. Regardless if it is good or bad, it is also an art that is difficult to master. I say it is difficult because hard work and frustration are its byproducts. It is not in a man’s nature to repeat something with pleasure. Repetition often requires an everlasting will to overcome the inner conflict that comes with the thought of repeating a task that couldn’t be done perfectly in the first go. The sense of failure needs to be set aside. And, that is the hardest thing to do.

On the other hand, good repetitions are bound to give you pleasure. They are the ones which a person makes their habit and introduces them in their daily routine. What is a routine? What is a habit? Both the terms represent repetitions that induce pleasure in their doing. But, not all pleasure-inducing repetitions are on the good side of the spectrum. Addiction, for example, is bad from all angles. No matter what a person might be addicted to, it's mostly bad. Addiction happens because it induces pleasure. So, once again, the line between the good and bad repetitions becomes convoluted. But, what becomes crystal is that repetition is indeed an art. It's difficult to master, requires lots of effort, and a mindset that is wired to overcome the frustration that comes along with it. And from a macroscopic perspective, repetitions are good. Repetition is the reason for multiple iterations of certain things through which their shortcomings are eliminated. It is because of repetition that the concept of perfection exists. Repetitions are useful. Repetitions are powerful. Repetitions, are the basic necessity of society!


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