What if someone told you that your success is an outcome of your luck? Is that enough for you to lash out and explain how your hard work and dedication have gotten you to the position where you are right now? What if I told you that your success is indeed a product of two contradictions? So why is the nature of your success contradictory? Before you could understand that, let's take a couple of minutes to get to know these contradictions. Contradiction 1: Your belief that it's your hard work and countless sleepless nights that have abled you to climb that success ladder and stand at the top. But, on the other hand, Contradiction 2: Your awareness that Contradiction 1 is a lie and your luck has played an important role in getting you where you are. This antithetical concept is the Success Paradox. But why does your success require to be paradoxical? The truth is, it doesn't. But it's the best approach that one should take to remain in touch with reality. It is human natu...
One is supposed to tie the knot with a partner after attaining 21 years of age, drink after 21, and drive after 18. All of these are examples of such life choices which can have a long-lasting impact on life itself. Naturally, we need to have some basic understanding of our reality before we can indulge ourselves in a choice that can either make our lives heaven on earth or throw them down in the valley of hell. That much we understand. As John Wick would say, "On that, we agree." But, I often wonder, who was the fool who decided that attaining 16 years of age was enough to make a decision regarding something which lays the foundation of your entire future? 16 years of age is when you can apply to have a learners' driving license for a scooter that comes with a 50cc engine (or below). Ironically, that is exactly the age at which this nation's youth is supposed to select one particular field, out of the holy trinity of Science, Commerce, and Humanities, and walk down t...